Saturday, October 11, 2014

S's Football Game

I can't believe it has been a month since I posted a post.  I have at least 37.8 posts waiting to be posted.  One of the reasons is a struggle with my new phone's blogger app.  Another is that we just are so very busy.


This morning, v, baby C, CK, & I got to attend my nephew's football game.  It was perfect football weather, but felt very cold to us.  You see, most of this week has been in the high 90s.  Last night a cold front came through, and today's temperature was 57 with a very cold wind.

I don't know why no matter what I do I cannot get the pictures to show up in the right order.  But, the good thing is, in this case it doesn't really matter.

V brought her bear.
E, V, C, and T.  Cousins forever.

Saturday, September 20, 2014

Happy Birthday, V!!!!

V turned two yesterday.  It was a great day!  I am so glad that she is my girl.  She talks a ton.  She pretty much is never silent unless she is asleep.  She loves to sing.  She loves to dance.  She loves to sweep.  She loves to unload the dishwasher.  She loves church.  She loves her siblings.  She is definitely a Daddy's Girl and loves him so much.  She loves to color, including on things where she should not color.
 This was V when she first woke up.  We all went into her room and sang to her.  She was excited.  She only sleeps with pacifiers, but she does truly love them.  Weaning her of them will be difficult.  I thought for sure at two we would, but I wasn't planning on the MS.  We might leave her her comfort objects for a while.

 Here she is ready to open her first present before the siblings leave for school. 
 The box had a table and four chairs just for her.  She was (and still is) sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo excited!  She loves them!

 We then went and had a playdate at our neighbor's home.  She loves them so much, so it was a perfect way to spend her birthday.  After the playing, we took her to Wendy's for lunch.  She LOVES french fries, so we felt like taking her out somewhere where she could get fries.


 When K got home from Driver's Ed and C and J home from school, the real party began!

We had the ever delicious meal of quesadillas and carrots for dinner.  Can you tell that the birthday girl was two?  We had to have something she loves.  K wasn't home yet when we ate, but when she did get home, we began with the "party," which really means opening presents.
 



V loves cookies, but doesn't love cake.  So, I made her a very large cookie to be her cookie-cake.  She loved the cookie, but was scared to death of the candle.  She screamed and cried and I went over to help her blow it out.  Still scared her until the candle made its way to the trash!

Once the candle was gone:  yum, yum!

And finally a Mommy-Birthday Girl selfie.  I am so glad that she is mine.  I love her with all of my heart.  It is hard to believe that she is already two.  What a big girl!  I love that she talks so much.  It is so much fun!  I love hearing her sing, "I Am a Child of God" or "Open, Shut Them."  I am truly blessed.   Happy Birthday, My V!

I think I will always wonder.

CK warned me when I was diagnosed with MS, but I might think that everything I felt was potential MS.  Unfortunately, he is right. For the last couple of hours my right leg has been numb, and it's making me wonder if it's another MS thing.  Could be. Could be something else. But with anything strange, I think I will always wonder.

Friday, September 12, 2014

Our latest saga as described by Fridays

This MS thing has been a rollercoaster. It snuck in unexpectedly, and has begun to rule our lives.  I take that back. Our lives are becoming normal now, but for the last few weeks it has ruled our lives. It's interesting to me how many things have happened on Fridays. Of course, not everything happened on a Friday, but you can understand this saga just by looking at Fridays.
Friday, August 15th:  lost vision almost completely in my right eye. This led to many doctors appointments, including going to the ER.
Friday, August 22nd:  had an MRI of my brain.  ( after seing a Neuro opthamologist earlier in the week)
Friday, August 29th: met with a neurologist and was given an official diagnosis of MS.
Friday, September 5th: had my third consecutive round of IV steroids.  ( after meeting with another neurologist earlier in the week, then having the first two days of steroids.  Yes, four days in a row at the doctor!).
Friday, September 12th:  this is today. It is the most normal day I have had in the last month. I still cannot drive, however, my eye is getting better. My hope is that it will continue to gradually improve.
What a crazy life I lead! I am so blessed in so very many ways. I am blessed to have the opportunity to slow down and enjoy life. I am blessed to recognize how many friends and family members care so very much about me and my family.  I am blessed to be able to remember that my Savior, Jesus Christ, knows everything that I am going through. He has felt it all. He has felt everything for everyone.

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Eyesight is worse.

Today is very very hard to see. That is frustrating, especially because yesterday was a little bit better. 

I think it is just a reminder to make sure I don't do too much. Last night was late, with different events for different children. Then, baby C would not sleep very well at all in the night. I think he is getting my bad cold that I have been fighting since the steroids. I've been diligently hand washing, sanitizing, and sneezing/ coughing away from him, but the reality is we spend an awful lot of time very close to each other.

So, while my eyesight has never come all the way back or even really that close, it is definitely worse when I am fatigued.

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

Analogy of a funnel: addendum # 2.

I have been thinking more and I've had a really profound thought. It is so important to me, that I had to write another post, instead of adding it as another addendum. This blog is going to be, in large part, my journal. Since it is difficult to see, voice recognition helps me a lot!

I call this the analogy of a funnel. You see, there are a huge number of things that I either want to do or I need to do every single day.  It's like they're sitting at the top of the funnel, but only a few of them actually make it through the funnel throughout the day.

Many of those that make it through the funnel to actually be accomplished are the urgent ones, such as driving a kid here or doing something there, something that needs to be done today.  The urgent frequently outweighs the most important.

So, today, when CK asked how I was doing, I think he about fell out of his chair. Because my reply was great!  I have the opportunity to be the mom to my littles that I have been desiring to be. They frequently get put in their car seats and driven here and there and everywhere. But, without being able to see, we are singing itsy bitsy spider, and building with blocks, and spending time together that I cherish. Itsy bitsy spider sometimes does not make it through the funnel.  Sometimes it does, but other times the whole day is spent with driving.  In an effort to take care of my olders, the littles sometimes do not get the best of me.  For now, it is time for the older kids to sacrifice for the good of the youngers.

I think in a different way than I ever expected, this optic neuritis is an answer to my prayers.  I get to be mom to my little ones. What a blessing!

Another Day

So, here I sit with another day in front of me.  I am trying to at least partially document this time in our lives. Blogging is one way I can make that happen.

But, first of all, screens of any sort are hard on my eyes. It is hard to see. So, I am doing these posts through voice recognition. They may not always turn out with the punctuation I intend, but I think the content will be preserved. I do check it to make sure that its nothing off the wall. But if I miss something, and you ever read something weird, chalk it up to voice recognition.

Today I am sick. Sick. Sick. Sick. I am guessing it is steroid related, since they said I might feel flu like symptoms.

As I was sitting here a little bit ago, I was thinking about how if it wasn't for the optic neuritis, I could live my life relatively normally, at least for now.

It is the vision that is the problem. It is not being able to see, not being able to read, not being able to drive.  This is tough. Today is tough, because there is no more divide and conquer. C has his first football game and I want to be there, but K is required to sing the national anthem at a volleyball game with her choir. We cannot do both with only one driver.  I already would have been torn because I would like to be at both, but it is hard that I don't even have a choice. CK doesn't even have a choice. He just has to drive.

So, I will keep praying that my vision improves, keep reading up on what I need to do to take care of my body as best as possible, and keep remembering how very many blessings I have.  You see, even with this SMS, I am one of the lucky ones.

Addendum and an epiphany:  I wrote the earlier part of this post a couple of hours ago, but as I have been thinking about it, I came to a realization.  I realized that with my personality, if I felt completely normal, it would be difficult for me to slow down to take care of myself.  The vision problem forces me to slow down.  With the diagnosis of MS, I would have had the best intentions of slowing down and taking it easy to protect myself, but as life gets busy, as the kids need something, as my calling becomes intense, I would probably just do it. This, in fact, could be detrimental to my health. I am beginning to see that my eye problem is a huge blessing.

Monday, September 8, 2014

Life - as seen through the eyes of V

Today is the first day of the rest of my life. Every day is the first day of the rest of my life. This MS diagnosis and all that comes with it has really rocked my world. In time, I will adjust. It is hard to think that I might never again be able to drive, that I might not be able to see my kids faces very well ever again, that I can't be out in the heat gardening, etc..  But, when all is said and done, I can do this. It's hard, but I can do it.

Now, on to my little V.  We've had a tradition for a couple of months where when I put her down for a nap, I asked her what does mommy love? And she always replies hugs and gives me a big hug. Well, today, I asked her what does Mommy love? And she replied going to the doctor!

This is truly our world through the eyes of an almost 2 year old.

Saturday, September 6, 2014

Seven months

Life is very hard right now....but this little guy just keeps growing.  I love him more than I could ever express.